Child Parenting – The Toughest But Most Rewarding Job In The World

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Child parenting is often described as being the most difficult job in the world and, if you compare it in general terms to any modern career you care to mention, then this is certainly a very fair description.

Child parenting lasts longer than any job and comes without the benefit of retirement. It also requires a greater investment in both time and money and will present you will more difficult choices, with often very uncertain outcomes, than any career. It also puts you on a roller coaster which will have your emotions rising to greater heights and falling to greater depths than you ever believed possible.

As with any job, you’ll need to learn a whole new set of skills and, most importantly, you’ll have to master these parenting skills quickly and get things right, or pretty close to right, first time. Learning to feed a newborn baby is not a skill we’re born with and getting it wrong can have you worried sick and calling the doctor in no time at all.

Also like most jobs, no sooner have you mastered one aspect of the job than you get promoted and have a whole new set of skills to learn. Baby parenting quickly turns into toddle parenting, child parenting and teenage parenting and it doesn’t stop there.

As if all this were not enough, in our modern society an increasing number of parents also have to contend with such things as separation, divorce, single parenting and step parenting. Throw into the mix the problems of educating and protecting your child in today’s complex world and the pressures brought to the equation by the media, child experts, educators, other children and a host of other outside influences and you have a very difficult task on your hands.

Having said all of this, there are of course many parents who do successfully negotiate this minefield, so just what is the secret to successful parenting?

Well that’s far too big a question to answer here, but there are certainly a few things that seem to set the successful parent apart from the crowd.

One extremely important factor is the attitude you adopt in approaching the problems of parenthood and the manner in which you conduct yourself and your own life. Approaching the problem with a sense of confidence, for example, will do much to ease your way and also to instill confidence in your own children. Similarly, demonstrating respect towards both your partner and your children will also help your children to develop a proper sense of respect of their own for the views, values and rights of others.

A sense of fair play is also a very important factor in successful child rearing and the way in which you deal with competing choices and the care you take in making and explaining your decisions teaches your children a valuable lesson and will do much to earn you their trust and respect. Alongside this, a willingness to spend time with your children and to listen to their views and share your thoughts and experiences with them will also prove invaluable.

Raising children is hard work and will certainly tax your emotions, but it is also one of the most rewarding things that any of us can do and the effort you put into bringing up your children will invariably be repaid in a hundred different ways.

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New parents face many problems and issues that they are expected to understand and deal with immediately.  Unfortunately, newborns do not come with an instruction book so here are a few topics that you may need to know about.  * Bathing your baby:  Until your baby’s umbilical cord falls off one to two weeks after their birth, only give her sponge baths.  A cotton ball or cotton swab dampened with alcohol can help to dry the umbilical stump or follow your pediatrician’s directions.  After the stump falls off, you can give him a bath in a sink or shallow tub.  * Caesarian delivery:  A caesarian is usually performed to make delivery safer for you or your baby.  C-sections can be done for many different reasons including stalled labor, complicated labor, problems with the baby that may make delivery difficult, or other problems.  It does not matter if you deliver vaginally or by a caesarian section, you are still a mother with a beautiful new blessing.    * Circumcision:  Many doctors agree that there may be some benefit to circumcision, but it may not be absolutely necessary.  It may help to lower the risk of urinary tract infections and eliminates just about any chance of penile cancer.  Circumcision does not cause long-term emotional problems for your child.  * Crib death (SIDS):  Many studies have been done regarding SIDS.  Although the cause of SIDS has not been definitely defined, there are some correlations that have been made between SIDS and the following things:  o Male babies are more likely to die from SIDS than femaleso Prematurity makes it more likely o Minority children are affected by it more often than non-minoritieso More children of young, single mothers die from ito Children who live in a home with one or more smokers are more likely to be affectedSome people say that sleeping with your baby can reduce the risk of SIDS, but the American Academy of Pediatrics disagree with this statement and go on to say that there is a greater risk of SIDS in babies who co-sleep.  Back sleeping is what most pediatricians recommend for babies to decrease the SIDS risk.  The reason for this is widely debated between health experts.  If you have concerns, talk to your pediatrician.  Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com

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